Social Networking: Personal vs. Professional – The Blurring Line
A question I always grapple with is how to balance my professional and personal life on social networking sites and even this website. I am sure some of you have had the same thoughts. I somewhat viewed it as a design problem to be solved. There are ups and downs to combining your personal and professional lives for all to see.
-If you are too forthcoming with opinions and personal belief structure you could alienate potential clients, employers, and connections.
-If you hold back you have internal struggles that could include not writing about passionate topics and start thinking “what about who I am as a person – my beliefs are part of who I am. I just want to tell them about who I am.” (Specifically now to the younger of my generation who are constantly searching for individuality in the post “me-economy”.)
I am cautious. I moderate all of my posts. I do not include politically inflammatory speech on publicly available outlets. I do not speak of religion. I believe if I steer clear of these two topics in general I should be a-okay. For me its about putting my best foot forward and to give the online world the best me I can.
The one time I did delve into the political arena on Twitter both sides of the aisle attacked me. Not exactly what I wanted to get out of it and I lost some “followers” because of it. I decided at that point that Twitter was not about opinion but rather it was about information dissemination. Twitter does not allow you to have meaningful conversation and because of the limited format allows for gross misinterpretation in 140 characters or less.
I do freely express myself in other ways that I believe creates a balance. This balance shows my professional and personal sides to all those who wish to see while remaining in the “safe zone” away from Kenny Loggins.
I freely discuss my opinion about design for both my own work- and others. This allows me to not only engage other people in conversation but also have my own work be dissected. Plus design is what I do and feel I have enough express for my peers and they for me that we can adequately discuss the design without coming to fisticuffs.
I freely discuss what music I listen to. Music is an important part of my life and enjoy letting people know of new artists. (I am hipster like that.)
I freely link to interesting articles from all over the web – just not professionally geared – but I include articles about my other interests that could bridge the gap between my personal and professional posts.
I post imagery of myself and my life. Whether it is an interesting photo or a group shot. I do this because not everyone who visits my site is a random web visitor. I have owned this domain for 6 years.
As a designer I believe my professional and personal life do not need to be separate. Design is not a “job” or a “career” for me. This is what I enjoy doing. Even now on my vacation I find myself sketching, reading, and thinking about design no matter where I am. I am compelled to express myself… however that doesn’t mean I do not have to express everything about me. Only the best parts about me.
Social networking is about creating an experience that is uniquely you – without running away potential.
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